On Sunday, I was fortunate enough to be able to represent Village Realty at the Outer Banks Wedding Expo. I had the opportunity to speak to lots of brides and their “intendeds” as well as friends and family of the bride.
The Expo was an incredible presentation of the various vendors that are available here on the Outer Banks to assist in planning a fabulous destination wedding. There were wedding planners who will do all the foot work in getting the event off the ground. There were caterers with samples of their food. There were photographers displaying their work, and florists showing their arrangements.
There were spas showcasing their offerings (I even got a complimentary Chair Massage!!). Also, musicians, DJ’s , hairstylists, wedding gown shops, and officiants were there. And of course rentals companies such as Village Realty were there offering vacation homes for rehearsal dinners, weddings and ceremonies, as well as accommodations for family and friends.
The Village Realty booth was in the High School gymnasium along with probably 70 other vendors. Halfway through the day I realized that there were about 50 more vendors in the cafeteria. Then, a shuttle took the brides to the Middle School where there were even more vendors. It really made me want to get married again and have a destination wedding in the Outer Banks!! 


Congratulations on your engagement! Are you dreaming of a romantic wedding on the Outer Banks? Perhaps you are considering saying your vows on the beach, at a church, a beautiful oceanfront home or an historic site. Maybe you are less conventional or more environmental and want to say get married on jet skis or in Nags Head Woods! Whatever your dreams are for your perfect day, there are over 100 experienced wedding professionals here on the Outer Banks, who can help make it happen. Let’s talk about the who, when, where, what and how of planning your barrier island wedding.
“Who” is where you start. Of course, you know whom you are marrying but there are many other people involved when making wedding plans!
The first three on your list should be easy enough but what if your hometown pastor can’t make it? Don’t panic. You can call one of the 90 plus churches in the area or check the listing in the Outer Banks Wedding Association to find a licensed officiate or pastor. This sounds heavenly but when you think about everything else that needs to be done, does the word “nightmare” come to mind? Relax! You’ll be happy to know that the wedding professionals here on the Outer Banks are experienced and passionate about assisting couples in creating unique, beautiful and meaningful weddings!
“When” always seems to be the easiest step in the plan. Keep in mind that the Outer Banks is one of the top three places for destination weddings. Plan early! Select the season and your first choice date and have several back up dates ready before you call your wedding planner. Consider that each season on the Outer Banks offers unique beauty as well as unique challenges. Your local professionals know our seasons and will give you good direction! Here is a quick commentary on the four seasons of the Outer Banks.
“Where” on the Outer Banks 100 miles of sand will you say, “I do”? Every step of the way has beaches, bed and breakfast homes, clubs, estate homes, hotels, gardens, attractions, maritime forests, halls and churches beckoning to you. From Ocracoke to Corolla, there are wonderful opportunities for both indoor and outdoor weddings that range from simple to spectacular. “Where” also requires that you think about the size space you will need, parking, accommodations and the honeymoon location. Explore the many possibilities listed here.
What? Don’t forget your license and all the other legalities! Click on the Legalities section of this web site to find legal information and contacts for Dare, Currituck and Hyde County. There are many other things you might need including formal wear, jewelry or last minute gifts for your wedding party. Rather than bring it all from home, you will be pleasantly surprised that you can find everything right here on the Outer Banks!
How? You have contemplated on all the who’s, when’s, where’s and what’s, now it is time to pull it all together. You can’t do it by yourself if want to enjoy your wedding! So, here are the wedding “go to sites” where you’ll find local resources for everything from professional planners to bakers, magazines full of great wedding tips and actual Outer Banks wedding photos, to bachelor party planners and wedding homes.
Once again, everyone at Village Realty offers you heartfelt congratulations and best wishes for a beautiful life together. We hope to hear from you soon!

It is a Western wedding custom for a newly married couple to exchange a kiss at the conclusion of their wedding ceremony. Some Christians hold the belief that the kiss symbolizes the exchange of souls between the bride and the groom, fulfilling the scripture that “the two shall become one flesh.” However, some trace the tradition to an ancient Roman tradition, whereby the exchange of a kiss signified the completion of a contract.
Although the kiss is not a formal requirement of the ceremony, most
regard the gesture as a joyful start of the marriage. The most
traditional way guests entice the new couple to kiss is by clinking
their glasses. An ancient Christian
tradition explains that the clinking sound scares the devil away and
the couple kisses in his absence. Another tradition is to ring bells
placed at the tables by the wedding party. A ring of the bell signals
the bride and groom to kiss. Today, most people uphold these traditions
as a fun excuse to get the couple to smooch. [Kissing Traditions from Wikipedia]

Patrick asked Colleen to be his bride this past May and they are GETTING MARRIED nearly ten years to the day after they first met (September 13, 2011) right here in Nags Head. Colleen and Patrick vacationed on the Outer Banks last August and loved our little piece of heaven so much, they knew they would someday want to have their wedding here. Over sixty family members and friends from their homeland of Ohio and various locations will be joining them for their special day.
First, they had to find the ideal oceanfront location to accommodate all of their guests, and fun reception they intend to have all in one spot. After going online and searching various rental homes, Village Realty offered the perfect solution with their 8 bedroom “Beach Boys” house in Nags Head, that easily sleeps 20+ guests. The rental cottage comes complete with pool, hot tub, six and half baths , theatre room, game room, fireplace and double kitchen…and it’s right across the dune to the ocean, where their wedding ceremony will be held on the beach, officiated by a close family friend.
Beach Boys Oceanfront Cottage/Nags Head
Colleen was delighted when she and her fiancé arrived for the Outer Banks Wedding Association’s annual Wedding EXPO last week and were able to actually get the keys and take a walking tour of the house imagining their dreams coming true next September. “I can’t say enough about how kind and awesome the people we met from Village Realty were to us!”
At the EXPO, Colleen and Patrick confirmed their decisions by meeting in person with their photographer, Alexandra Couey from ALC Photography and John from Metro Rental, who wisely suggested using custom benches instead of chairs for their sandy-bottom ceremony. “Having our wedding on the Outer Banks as opposed to a more commercialized beach destination was our goal. We don’t like the crowds or traffic in Myrtle Beach and we wanted something that was more personal. We found it quite affordable and we’re especially delighted that we’ve chosen vendors who are so willing to accommodate and help make this day special for us.”
Colleen and Patrick chose the “Outer Banks Taco Bar” from Kitty Hawk as their catering service for the reception because they always enjoyed eating there while vacationing and they both really like the owner, Gabe. Colleen was impressed to learn the Taco Bar uses fresh vegetables from local farms and supporting the locals plays an important part in all of their choices. In addition and most importantly, “Their food is just phenomenal!”
While chatting with Colleen about her Village Realty choice, we both agreed that the folks at Village Realty are ideal and easily become fast friends, welcoming and accommodating, professional and they sincerely go above and beyond.
For Colleen and Patrick, their Village Realty Nags Head home is where their story begins….
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this blog, or for the consequences of any actions taken on the
basis
of the information provided for any vendors suggested or
recommended. OBX Wedding Blog is for informational purposes only.
Village Realty has no direct association with any vendors mentioned in
articles or posts. Any views or opinions presented in this blog are
solely those
of the author and do not necessarily represent those of the
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Planning YOUR Beach Wedding?
With miles of oceanfront, many accommodations to choose from, historic settings and friendly people, you will surely find all that you need and desire here on the Outer Banks.
"From a simple Corolla beach wedding and beach home reception, to a grand
affair under tent at The Whalehead Club , to a Duck Village ceremony
with a garden reception at The Saltaire House. Move south to a Nags Head
Beach ceremony and reception at The First Colony Inn , a Ramada Plaza Ballroom Wedding for 250 or more guests, or wedding
celebration at the Love Boat , a Titantic themed event home on Hatteras Island with its own
catwalk bow (great for pictures!) Or simply rent a lovely spacious oceanfront or sunset view soundfront home, or one right on the golf course for an extended weekend through Village Realty .
The Outer Banks Wedding Association Wedding EXPO weekend was quite exciting for new brides planning their nuptials here at the beach. I attended the exposition on Sunday afternoon. Blushing brides with their attendants were everywhere, gathering information about location, flowers, catering, bartending services, officiants, hair and nails, tent and tuxedo rentals, photographers...and there were so many to choose from. If a bride approached the event with a list, she could certainly walk away with some fabulous choices in vendors.
Some of my personal favorite TOP TEN vendors that caught my eye, simply be being super friendly as I passed by, or helpful when I stopped to visit and admire their wares were:
1. Beach Ball Events (Dave Gergen) offering complete wedding packages including ceremony locations at Mallard's Marsh and Adrianna's as well as Pirate's Cove.
2. Holiday House Weddings offered the most spectacular floral arrangements and breathtaking bouquet offerings (in my opinion).
3. Bells & Whistles displayed gorgeous whimsical floral arrangements and displays that were photographic masterpieces.
4. Icing on the Cakes was my favorite wedding cake choice with the most gorgeous, delicacies in "cupcake" fashion. They won the coveted "Brides Choice Awards" in 2010. Well deserved.
5. Outer Banks Productions (Doug & Michelle Haber) Definitely the best wedding photo display at the EXPO. Wedding pictures last a lifetime and are displayed for decades after the ceremony. These portraits and videos were unique and gorgeous.
6. Courtney Hathaway Photography also caught my eye because I heard Courtney telling one bride enthusiastically how one portrait can "change your life". She obviously loves her profession and one can tell by the photographs, she captures perfect moments perfectly.
7. OBX Bar-4-Hire (Jay & Lisa Ammons) a spectacular idea for hiring professional bartenders to provide a full service to your home or outdoor wedding, reception, anniversary and party locations.
8. Ortega'z Catering (Lisa Ortega) Wedding banquets, luncheons, receptions, dinners with food that will be talked about long after the affair. Their staff of professional servers (my favorite is Holly) are super friendly and courteous to each and every guest.
9. The Outer Banks Officiant (Rev. Rande Banks) offers non-denominational, traditional and contemporary ceremony services from Corova Beach to Ocracoke Island and everywhere in between. Also, an Elopement Package ceremony with a breathtaking sound/sunset location that is ideal for any budget.
10. The Cottage Shop (Kim) Home outfitters for seaside living. The BEST wedding gifts of the finest quality can be found in either the Duck or Nags Head locations.
Please contact the good people at Village Realty to reserve a weekend rental home or condo for you and your bridal party.

November 8th, 2010
Article by: Desi Velikova (Thank you for sharing...for more Outer Banks Wedding information please visit www.mybeachwedding.co.uk )

Hatteras Island and Ocracoke Island are unique islands situated on the outer banks of North Carolina, USA. Hatteras Island is home of the Outer Banks’ most captivating open spaces and unadulterated island villages. Ocracoke Island is called “Pearl of the Outer Banks” and was named “Number One Beach in America” in 2007 with its sixteen miles of beach surrounded by the crystal water of the Atlantic.
You can say “I do” on these amazing places of Earth and we found the easiest way to do that. Mary Haggerty is a wedding planner who organizes beach weddings on Hatteras and Ocracoke Islands. Mary has been a photographer for over twenty years. She is originally from New York and has worked as a wedding, portrait and fine art photographer. She has also been a photojournalist for many years. Mary organizes unusual weddings like beach weddings, Lighthouse weddings, sunset weddings, and pirate weddings.
How did you start this business?
I moved to Ocracoke Island five years ago and opened a photography shop, Ocracoke Photo. I photograph family portraits and weddings. Being a wedding photographer, I started spending a lot of time helping my couples plan their weddings. I understood how hard it was for them to find all the wedding services they needed long distance. That’s why I started offering wedding packages along with my wedding photography.
I see you make really exotic weddings. What kind of packages do you offer?
All my wedding packages include everything you would need for a small beach wedding. We start with a theme like “Sunset and Seashells” or “Lighthouse wedding”, then my couples can customize the package. They can choose the type of flowers they like, the flavor and decorations for their cake. I also coordinate getting the necessary permits to get married at the beach or the lighthouse. I try to make it easy to plan their wedding. If couples want to have a bigger wedding, we just add upgrades to the package, like a larger cake, etc. I can also help plan a reception.
Is it easy to get married on the beach on Ocracoke Island or Hatteras Island?
It’s easy to get married on the beach. There is no waiting period once you have obtained your marriage license in North Carolina. Our beach is a US National Park, so you will need a permit, which costs $100. That’s included in my packages.
How big are the weddings you usually organize?
I have done weddings with just the Bride and the Groom and I’ve done weddings with 100 guests. I would say most weddings on the Island have 12-30 guests.
Is there something specific couples should know before they decide to get married on Ocracoke Island or Hatteras Island? Is it dangerous? When is the best time of the year to get married there?
I think the best time to get married on Hatteras or Ocracoke Island is the spring and fall. Summer is great too. Winter is good also, because you can get off season rates on lodging. From May to October the weather is perfect for a beach wedding.
It’s not dangerous. We haven’t had pirates on our Island since Blackbeard in the 1700s.
One thing you should know is that Ocracoke Island is accessible only by ferry or small plane. There is a free 30 min ferry from Hatteras Island. Ocracoke Island was named the “Number One Beach in America” in 2007.
What are the required documents?
A marriage license with no waiting period can be obtained at any registrar of deeds office in North Carolina. The couple will need two witnesses to sign the document. A National Park Service permit is also necessary.
Which are some of your most remarkable weddings? Tell me one unusual and romantic wedding story.
All weddings are special, you just have to remember everyone gets their own perfect day. I remember a couple who got married on a schooner on a sunset sailing cruise. It was so cloudy and gray all day we didn’t see the sun at all. We were out in the sound as the officiant came to the end of the ceremony and pronounced them man and wife, they kissed. Then dolphins began jumping out of the water everywhere all around the boat as if on cue. So they didn’t have a bright sunny day, but they did have the dolphins at their ceremony and that was spectacular!
How much does it cost to get married on Hatteras and Ocracoke Islands?
My packages are under $2,000 and include a wedding photography package with an album, a wedding cake, a bride’s bouquet and groom’s boutineer, the site fee for the beach, ceremony decorations, two custom etched champagne flutes with the couples name and date engraved on them, and a complimentary bottle of champagne. I take care of all the running around, so when couples get to the island, they can relax.
Why should people choose to get married on Hatteras and Ocracoke Islands?
I think couples come to get married on the Island because they want to be surrounded by the beauty of nature, the sound of the waves, the blue sky overhead, the sand between their toes. These beautiful surroundings make a wedding much more personal, intimate, and unique. One very special thing about Hatteras and Ocracoke Islands is that the sun both rises and sets over the water. It rises over the Atlantic Ocean and sets over the Pamlico sound. Our sunsets are breathtaking!
MARY HAGGERTY, wedding planner and photographer
www.facebook.com/IslandWedding
Email: NCIslandWedding@gmail.com
Phone Number: (252) 928-7000
Photos: http://www.ocracokephoto.com/
Disclaimer: Village Realty accepts no
liability for the content of
this blog, or for the consequences of any actions taken on the
basis
of the information provided for any vendors suggested or
recommended. OBX Wedding Blog is for informational purposes only.
Village Realty has no direct association with any vendors mentioned in
articles or posts. Any views or opinions presented in this blog are
solely those
of the author and do not necessarily represent those of the
company.
