Outer Banks Wedding Blog by Village Realty

2012 Outer Banks Wedding Expo

OBX Wedding Blog — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 20:24:20 GMT

On Sunday, I was fortunate enough to be able to represent Village Realty at the Outer Banks Wedding Expo. I had the opportunity to speak to lots of brides and their “intendeds” as well as friends and family of the bride.

The Expo was an incredible presentation of the various vendors that are available here on the Outer Banks to assist in planning a fabulous destination wedding. There were wedding planners who will do all the foot work in getting the event off the ground. There were caterers with samples of their food. There were photographers displaying their work, and florists showing their arrangements.
There were spas showcasing their offerings (I even got a complimentary Chair Massage!!). Also, musicians, DJ’s , hairstylists, wedding gown shops, and officiants were there. And of course rentals companies such as Village Realty were there offering vacation homes for rehearsal dinners, weddings and ceremonies, as well as accommodations for family and friends.

The Village Realty booth was in the High School gymnasium along with probably 70 other vendors. Halfway through the day I realized that there were about 50 more vendors in the cafeteria. Then, a shuttle took the brides to the Middle School where there were even more vendors. It really made me want to get married again and have a destination wedding in the Outer Banks!!

Welcome to the 2012 Outer Banks Wedding Expo

OBX Wedding Blog — Fri, 06 Jan 2012 21:54:59 GMT

Village Realty would like to welcome all brides and their friends/families who are attending the 2012 Outer Banks Wedding Expo. Please stop by our open house at 'Beach Breeze' located at 3529 S. Virginia Dare Trail and enjoy a yummy surprise.

Click here to view our Outer Banks wedding brochure.

Unique & Romantic Surprise Beach Weddings

Cynthia Holly — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 18:31:49 GMT

Surprise Wedding

The entire family and bestest of friends were finally all gathered together in a Nags Head Oceanfront house for a week long vacation! One couple insisted everyone come down to the beach on a particularly lovely, sunshiny day,. So they gathered the kids, the sunscreen, coolers, boogie boards, chairs, umbrellas, towels and books to set up for an afternoon of toes in the sand. Out of the blue, came a man with a small round table, which he placed in the sand along with a small bouquet of flowers and a beautiful satin ribbon tied around the white table cloth...he said he was there to do a magic trick and for the family to gather around. Curious, they did. The man then announced he would require two volunteers and chose the couple out of the crowd. They stepped up to the table, held hands, looked into each others eyes....and the man performed a surprise wedding ceremony, right there in the sand, in front of God and everyone! The group erupted with gasps, tears of joy and shouts of happiness as the officiant pronounced the couple husband and wife.

Flash Mob Song/Dance Beach Party Wedding

Her favorite movie was "My Best Friend's Wedding", especially the scene where the entire wedding party erupts into song, "I'll Say A Little Prayer for You" during the rehearsal dinner. He knew this and wanted to surprise her, so he contacted some friends, who knew some friends who were involved in theater/dance here on the Outer Banks and arranged for all of them to gather on the beach inconspicuously, in bathing suits and summer picnic attire, in and around where the morning beach ceremony was to take place. As their small wedding party gathered to witness their union, the officiant asked the groom to read his handwritten vows...he began singing (a little off-key and loudly) "The moment I wake up..." when one of the volunteers on the beach jumped up and continued..."before I put on my make-up"...and the WHOLE troupe joined in "I say a little prayer for you!" Singing and dancing around the couple, while the bride clapped her hands, laughed and through tears of joy said, "Oh yes, I surely do!"

For information on these unique ideas and more, local OBX contact suggestions include:

Rande Banks, Wedding Officiant The Outer Banks Officiant (252) 473-0551
Alan Ross, Wedding Officiant/Entertainment "Alan Ross Weddings" (252) 441-6077
Simone Endres "Je t'aime Weddings & Events" (757) 637-5031

Disclaimer: Village Realty accepts no liability for the content of this blog, or for the consequences of any actions taken on the basis of the information provided for any vendors suggested or recommended. OBX Wedding Blog is for informational purposes only. Village Realty has no direct association with any vendors mentioned in articles or posts. Any views or opinions presented in this blog are solely those of the author and do not necessarily represent those of the company.

Outer Banks Weddings

OBX Wedding Blog — Mon, 02 May 2011 14:13:00 GMT

Congratulations on your engagement! Are you dreaming of a romantic wedding on the Outer Banks? Perhaps you are considering saying your vows on the beach, at a church, a beautiful oceanfront home or an historic site. Maybe you are less conventional or more environmental and want to say get married on jet skis or in Nags Head Woods! Whatever your dreams are for your perfect day, there are over 100 experienced wedding professionals here on the Outer Banks, who can help make it happen. Let’s talk about the who, when, where, what and how of planning your barrier island wedding.

“Who” is where you start. Of course, you know whom you are marrying but there are many other people involved when making wedding plans!

Wedding party
Family
Guests
Pastor or officiate
Wedding coordinator or planner
Bakers, caterers, musicians, etc.

The first three on your list should be easy enough but what if your hometown pastor can’t make it? Don’t panic. You can call one of the 90 plus churches in the area or check the listing in the Outer Banks Wedding Association to find a licensed officiate or pastor. This sounds heavenly but when you think about everything else that needs to be done, does the word “nightmare” come to mind? Relax! You’ll be happy to know that the wedding professionals here on the Outer Banks are experienced and passionate about assisting couples in creating unique, beautiful and meaningful weddings!

“When” always seems to be the easiest step in the plan. Keep in mind that the Outer Banks is one of the top three places for destination weddings. Plan early! Select the season and your first choice date and have several back up dates ready before you call your wedding planner. Consider that each season on the Outer Banks offers unique beauty as well as unique challenges. Your local professionals know our seasons and will give you good direction! Here is a quick commentary on the four seasons of the Outer Banks.

Beautiful clear days with Carolina blue skies and calm winds and water are enjoyed during an Outer Banks spring. You can also experience cooler, windy weather with rough ocean and sound waters. Spring rates are lower than in-season and most all restaurants, attractions and shops are open by mid-March or April.
Soft, mild breezes and warm days, muggy and buggy days, and hot, sunny days are all part of a summer Outer Banks style. Summer brings an occasional thunderstorm and ocean water that can be cool until July. Hundreds of thousands of vacationers are here each day so plan for heavy traffic and busy restaurants. In-season rates are in effect and reservations are often made 2 years in advance. All restaurants, attractions and shops are open and busy during the summer season!
Fall is a slower time of the year here on the banks. You’ll enjoy warm days and pleasant nights but sometimes a roaring nor’easter brings in a brisk wind, rain and tumultuous waves in both the ocean and sounds. Rental rates are lower than in –season with restaurants, attractions and shops open and welcoming with a laid back atmosphere.

The quiet winter here is a mixed bag but many couples still chose an Outer Banks winter day for their wedding. These days can be mild and beautiful or they can be harsh, cold and windy. There are plenty of places for indoor ceremonies and there is always the beach for those who are truly hearty and adventuresome! Winter offers the bonus of off-season rates for accommodations and even though some restaurants, attractions and shops take January winter breaks, you’ll find plenty of fine dining and more than enough to do!

“Where” on the Outer Banks 100 miles of sand will you say, “I do”? Every step of the way has beaches, bed and breakfast homes, clubs, estate homes, hotels, gardens, attractions, maritime forests, halls and churches beckoning to you. From Ocracoke to Corolla, there are wonderful opportunities for both indoor and outdoor weddings that range from simple to spectacular. “Where” also requires that you think about the size space you will need, parking, accommodations and the honeymoon location. Explore the many possibilities listed here.

The idea of a beach wedding is exciting! Consider if there is adequate parking. Will you need a permit? What about the “who’s”? Walking in sand, sitting in the sun and bracing the wind might not be everyone’s cup of tea and might be impossible for your Grannie Annie. Also understand that seagulls don’t change their habits for weddings and the ocean can be very loud! And will you provide a back up site if it rains or the wind is blowing 30 mph?
A traditional church wedding is the natural choice of many couples. Check the yellow pages and you will find there are almost 90 churches in the area. Ask if you’ll need premarital counseling, church membership or affiliation or if the church has is an open door policy. Many churches do not allow photographs during the ceremony so this is another question you need to ask, as well as what other restrictions may apply.
For small, intimate weddings and receptions look into a bed and breakfast. From quirky to quaint, simple to elegant, in the woods or by the sea, these can be wonderful wedding locations! There are a few that can accommodate larger weddings as well as receptions.
Do you need a large place that can be for both the wedding and the reception? Think about celebrating your vows at a private wedding hall, hotel, clubhouse, country club or restaurant. These venues can accommodate the most casual to the most formal weddings and most have in-house catering and staff for the reception.
Many couples love a theme wedding/reception or just an offbeat location for the ceremony. Discover the many Outer Banks historical sites, parks, museums, aquariums, piers and gardens where you can tie the knot!
Possibly one of the best places here for weddings are the estate homes. These homes range in size and amenities. They are completely furnished, stylishly appointed and often designed especially for weddings. You’ll find large open areas, beautiful pools, gardens, spacious rooms, comfortable kitchen layouts and a variety of other amenities such as saunas, hot tubs, game rooms and theatres. Each home is different! Check the listings at Village Realty under Wedding Homes to find the one that is perfect for your dream wedding.

What? Don’t forget your license and all the other legalities! Click on the Legalities section of this web site to find legal information and contacts for Dare, Currituck and Hyde County. There are many other things you might need including formal wear, jewelry or last minute gifts for your wedding party. Rather than bring it all from home, you will be pleasantly surprised that you can find everything right here on the Outer Banks!

How? You have contemplated on all the who’s, when’s, where’s and what’s, now it is time to pull it all together. You can’t do it by yourself if want to enjoy your wedding! So, here are the wedding “go to sites” where you’ll find local resources for everything from professional planners to bakers, magazines full of great wedding tips and actual Outer Banks wedding photos, to bachelor party planners and wedding homes.

Outer Banks Wedding Association www.outerbanksweddingassoc.org
The Wedding Guide to the Outer Banks www.outerbanksweddingguide,com
Village Realty at www.villagerealtyobx.com . Click on the quick link “Outer Banks Weddings”

Once again, everyone at Village Realty offers you heartfelt congratulations and best wishes for a beautiful life together. We hope to hear from you soon!

Wedding Magic "The Amazing Stanley"

Cynthia Holly — Fri, 11 Mar 2011 17:13:00 GMT

Here's an interesting and unusual idea....

Most wedding guest lists include at least a few children, the flower girl, ring bearer, little brothers and sisters and brides often wonder how to keep these little ones entertained while the grown-ups are busy with ceremonial duties or formal reception dinners. How about hiring a Magician to entertain the young (and young at heart) in an adjoining room at your elegant affair?

T.A. Stanley (Stan Blusiewicz) a.k.a. "The Amazing Stanley"* is available for such occasions. A professional magician for over 20 years (hailing from Baltimore, Maryland) Stanley has charmed everyone from birthday parties to Bar Mitzvahs with his magical wonders. In the wedding category, he's even helped a few creative men surprise their sweethearts by magically making their engagement rings appear.

While guests wait for the wedding party to arrive at the reception, during pictures "The Amazing Stanley" can entertain using roving magic, from table to table, person to person with oohs and aahs that will be remembered. The "Wedding March" can be played by his creation of a human Xylophone of wind chimes and wooden spoons...a great photo op for the wedding party or little ones.

"The Amazing Stanley" can bring real magic to your engagement party, rehearsal dinner, reception or any celebratory gathering during this enchanting time.

For more information, or to inquire about availability, please contact Stanley Magic @
www.obxweddingmagic.com or call (866) 768-1996

*A member in good standing with: The International Brotherhood of Magicians; Society of American Magicians and Magician Alliance of Eastern States.

"You may KISS the bride..."

Cynthia Holly — Sun, 30 Jan 2011 17:34:00 GMT

Wedding kiss

Married couple's first kiss

It is a Western wedding custom for a newly married couple to exchange a kiss at the conclusion of their wedding ceremony. Some Christians hold the belief that the kiss symbolizes the exchange of souls between the bride and the groom, fulfilling the scripture that “the two shall become one flesh.” However, some trace the tradition to an ancient Roman tradition, whereby the exchange of a kiss signified the completion of a contract.

Although the kiss is not a formal requirement of the ceremony, most regard the gesture as a joyful start of the marriage. The most traditional way guests entice the new couple to kiss is by clinking their glasses. An ancient Christian tradition explains that the clinking sound scares the devil away and the couple kisses in his absence. Another tradition is to ring bells placed at the tables by the wedding party. A ring of the bell signals the bride and groom to kiss. Today, most people uphold these traditions as a fun excuse to get the couple to smooch. [Kissing Traditions from Wikipedia]

After the initial kiss as husband and wife, wedding guests can't seem to get enough of this traditional display of affection. Ways to encourage the newlyweds to kiss during the reception include:

1. Tapping silverware on stemware: Lightly tap a spoon or fork (knives tend to break the glasses too easily) on a water glass for a tinkling sound. Any guest may start this at any time during the reception and the bride and groom kiss each time.

2. Clinking of Glasses: Glasses clinked together in harmony in mock toasts is another way to encourage matrimonial kissing during the reception dinner.

3. Code Word: Usually a written word placed on the guest tables (with simple instructions) where the entire table must get up and sing a song with the word "love" or "kiss" or "forever", etc. in it.

4. Kissing Bells: Small tinkle bells placed on each guest table to be rung throughout the dinner/reception whenever the guests wish to see another kiss by the happy couple

5. Wedding Kiss Shakers: Can be made or bought specifically for the reception like these cute ideas from "Project Wedding" .

6. Marriage Advice: An already married person may stand up and offer one piece of marital advice to the couple in exchange for a kiss.

7. Copycat Kissing: The bride and groom must copy the kiss by another two people, who kiss first at their table.

8. Balloons: Helium balloons tied loosely to the backs of chairs can be released one at a time, inspiring a kiss.

Disclaimer: Village Realty accepts no liability for the content of this blog, or for the consequences of any actions taken on the basis of the information provided for any vendors suggested or recommended. OBX Wedding Blog is for informational purposes only. Village Realty has no direct association with any vendors mentioned in articles or posts. Any views or opinions presented in this blog are solely those of the author and do not necessarily represent those of the company.

Upcoming Outer Banks Wedding 2011

Cynthia Holly — Fri, 14 Jan 2011 16:00:10 GMT

Patrick asked Colleen to be his bride this past May and they are GETTING MARRIED nearly ten years to the day after they first met (September 13, 2011) right here in Nags Head. Colleen and Patrick vacationed on the Outer Banks last August and loved our little piece of heaven so much, they knew they would someday want to have their wedding here. Over sixty family members and friends from their homeland of Ohio and various locations will be joining them for their special day.

First, they had to find the ideal oceanfront location to accommodate all of their guests, and fun reception they intend to have all in one spot. After going online and searching various rental homes, Village Realty offered the perfect solution with their 8 bedroom “Beach Boys” house in Nags Head, that easily sleeps 20+ guests. The rental cottage comes complete with pool, hot tub, six and half baths , theatre room, game room, fireplace and double kitchen…and it’s right across the dune to the ocean, where their wedding ceremony will be held on the beach, officiated by a close family friend.

Beach Boys Oceanfront Cottage/Nags Head

Colleen was delighted when she and her fiancé arrived for the Outer Banks Wedding Association’s annual Wedding EXPO last week and were able to actually get the keys and take a walking tour of the house imagining their dreams coming true next September. “I can’t say enough about how kind and awesome the people we met from Village Realty were to us!”

At the EXPO, Colleen and Patrick confirmed their decisions by meeting in person with their photographer, Alexandra Couey from ALC Photography and John from Metro Rental, who wisely suggested using custom benches instead of chairs for their sandy-bottom ceremony. “Having our wedding on the Outer Banks as opposed to a more commercialized beach destination was our goal. We don’t like the crowds or traffic in Myrtle Beach and we wanted something that was more personal. We found it quite affordable and we’re especially delighted that we’ve chosen vendors who are so willing to accommodate and help make this day special for us.”

Colleen and Patrick chose the “Outer Banks Taco Bar” from Kitty Hawk as their catering service for the reception because they always enjoyed eating there while vacationing and they both really like the owner, Gabe. Colleen was impressed to learn the Taco Bar uses fresh vegetables from local farms and supporting the locals plays an important part in all of their choices. In addition and most importantly, “Their food is just phenomenal!”

While chatting with Colleen about her Village Realty choice, we both agreed that the folks at Village Realty are ideal and easily become fast friends, welcoming and accommodating, professional and they sincerely go above and beyond.

For Colleen and Patrick, their Village Realty Nags Head home is where their story begins….

Here come the brides....(My TOP 10 from the EXPO)

Cynthia Holly — Mon, 10 Jan 2011 15:39:00 GMT

Planning YOUR Beach Wedding?

With miles of oceanfront, many accommodations to choose from, historic settings and friendly people, you will surely find all that you need and desire here on the Outer Banks.

"From a simple Corolla beach wedding and beach home reception, to a grand affair under tent at The Whalehead Club , to a Duck Village ceremony with a garden reception at The Saltaire House. Move south to a Nags Head Beach ceremony and reception at The First Colony Inn , a Ramada Plaza Ballroom Wedding for 250 or more guests, or wedding celebration at the Love Boat , a Titantic themed event home on Hatteras Island with its own catwalk bow (great for pictures!) Or simply rent a lovely spacious oceanfront or sunset view soundfront home, or one right on the golf course for an extended weekend through Village Realty .

The Outer Banks Wedding Association Wedding EXPO weekend was quite exciting for new brides planning their nuptials here at the beach. I attended the exposition on Sunday afternoon. Blushing brides with their attendants were everywhere, gathering information about location, flowers, catering, bartending services, officiants, hair and nails, tent and tuxedo rentals, photographers...and there were so many to choose from. If a bride approached the event with a list, she could certainly walk away with some fabulous choices in vendors.

Some of my personal favorite TOP TEN vendors that caught my eye, simply be being super friendly as I passed by, or helpful when I stopped to visit and admire their wares were:

1. Beach Ball Events (Dave Gergen) offering complete wedding packages including ceremony locations at Mallard's Marsh and Adrianna's as well as Pirate's Cove.

2. Holiday House Weddings offered the most spectacular floral arrangements and breathtaking bouquet offerings (in my opinion).

3. Bells & Whistles displayed gorgeous whimsical floral arrangements and displays that were photographic masterpieces.

4. Icing on the Cakes was my favorite wedding cake choice with the most gorgeous, delicacies in "cupcake" fashion. They won the coveted "Brides Choice Awards" in 2010. Well deserved.

5. Outer Banks Productions (Doug & Michelle Haber) Definitely the best wedding photo display at the EXPO. Wedding pictures last a lifetime and are displayed for decades after the ceremony. These portraits and videos were unique and gorgeous.

6. Courtney Hathaway Photography also caught my eye because I heard Courtney telling one bride enthusiastically how one portrait can "change your life". She obviously loves her profession and one can tell by the photographs, she captures perfect moments perfectly.

7. OBX Bar-4-Hire (Jay & Lisa Ammons) a spectacular idea for hiring professional bartenders to provide a full service to your home or outdoor wedding, reception, anniversary and party locations.

8. Ortega'z Catering (Lisa Ortega) Wedding banquets, luncheons, receptions, dinners with food that will be talked about long after the affair. Their staff of professional servers (my favorite is Holly) are super friendly and courteous to each and every guest.

9. The Outer Banks Officiant (Rev. Rande Banks) offers non-denominational, traditional and contemporary ceremony services from Corova Beach to Ocracoke Island and everywhere in between. Also, an Elopement Package ceremony with a breathtaking sound/sunset location that is ideal for any budget.

10. The Cottage Shop (Kim) Home outfitters for seaside living. The BEST wedding gifts of the finest quality can be found in either the Duck or Nags Head locations.

Please contact the good people at Village Realty to reserve a weekend rental home or condo for you and your bridal party.

Order a free 2011 OUTER BANKS BRIDE MAGAZINE

Disclaimer: Village Realty accepts no liability for the content of this blog, or for the consequences of any actions taken on the basis of the information provided for any vendors suggested or recommended. OBX Wedding Blog is for informational purposes only. Village Realty has no direct association with any vendors mentioned in articles or posts. Any views or opinions presented in this blog are solely those of the author and do not necessarily represent those of the company.

Beach weddings on Hatteras and Ocracoke Islands – an interview with Mary Haggerty

Cynthia Holly — Fri, 03 Dec 2010 17:14:00 GMT

November 8th, 2010

Article by: Desi Velikova (Thank you for sharing...for more Outer Banks Wedding information please visit www.mybeachwedding.co.uk )

Hatteras Island and Ocracoke Island are unique islands situated on the outer banks of North Carolina, USA. Hatteras Island is home of the Outer Banks’ most captivating open spaces and unadulterated island villages. Ocracoke Island is called “Pearl of the Outer Banks” and was named “Number One Beach in America” in 2007 with its sixteen miles of beach surrounded by the crystal water of the Atlantic.

You can say “I do” on these amazing places of Earth and we found the easiest way to do that. Mary Haggerty is a wedding planner who organizes beach weddings on Hatteras and Ocracoke Islands. Mary has been a photographer for over twenty years. She is originally from New York and has worked as a wedding, portrait and fine art photographer. She has also been a photojournalist for many years. Mary organizes unusual weddings like beach weddings, Lighthouse weddings, sunset weddings, and pirate weddings.

How did you start this business?

I moved to Ocracoke Island five years ago and opened a photography shop, Ocracoke Photo. I photograph family portraits and weddings. Being a wedding photographer, I started spending a lot of time helping my couples plan their weddings. I understood how hard it was for them to find all the wedding services they needed long distance. That’s why I started offering wedding packages along with my wedding photography.

I see you make really exotic weddings. What kind of packages do you offer?

All my wedding packages include everything you would need for a small beach wedding. We start with a theme like “Sunset and Seashells” or “Lighthouse wedding”, then my couples can customize the package. They can choose the type of flowers they like, the flavor and decorations for their cake. I also coordinate getting the necessary permits to get married at the beach or the lighthouse. I try to make it easy to plan their wedding. If couples want to have a bigger wedding, we just add upgrades to the package, like a larger cake, etc. I can also help plan a reception.

Is it easy to get married on the beach on Ocracoke Island or Hatteras Island?

It’s easy to get married on the beach. There is no waiting period once you have obtained your marriage license in North Carolina. Our beach is a US National Park, so you will need a permit, which costs $100. That’s included in my packages.

How big are the weddings you usually organize?

I have done weddings with just the Bride and the Groom and I’ve done weddings with 100 guests. I would say most weddings on the Island have 12-30 guests.

Is there something specific couples should know before they decide to get married on Ocracoke Island or Hatteras Island? Is it dangerous? When is the best time of the year to get married there?

I think the best time to get married on Hatteras or Ocracoke Island is the spring and fall. Summer is great too. Winter is good also, because you can get off season rates on lodging. From May to October the weather is perfect for a beach wedding.

It’s not dangerous. We haven’t had pirates on our Island since Blackbeard in the 1700s.

One thing you should know is that Ocracoke Island is accessible only by ferry or small plane. There is a free 30 min ferry from Hatteras Island. Ocracoke Island was named the “Number One Beach in America” in 2007.

What are the required documents?

A marriage license with no waiting period can be obtained at any registrar of deeds office in North Carolina. The couple will need two witnesses to sign the document. A National Park Service permit is also necessary.

Which are some of your most remarkable weddings? Tell me one unusual and romantic wedding story.

All weddings are special, you just have to remember everyone gets their own perfect day. I remember a couple who got married on a schooner on a sunset sailing cruise. It was so cloudy and gray all day we didn’t see the sun at all. We were out in the sound as the officiant came to the end of the ceremony and pronounced them man and wife, they kissed. Then dolphins began jumping out of the water everywhere all around the boat as if on cue. So they didn’t have a bright sunny day, but they did have the dolphins at their ceremony and that was spectacular!

How much does it cost to get married on Hatteras and Ocracoke Islands?

My packages are under $2,000 and include a wedding photography package with an album, a wedding cake, a bride’s bouquet and groom’s boutineer, the site fee for the beach, ceremony decorations, two custom etched champagne flutes with the couples name and date engraved on them, and a complimentary bottle of champagne. I take care of all the running around, so when couples get to the island, they can relax.

Why should people choose to get married on Hatteras and Ocracoke Islands?

I think couples come to get married on the Island because they want to be surrounded by the beauty of nature, the sound of the waves, the blue sky overhead, the sand between their toes. These beautiful surroundings make a wedding much more personal, intimate, and unique. One very special thing about Hatteras and Ocracoke Islands is that the sun both rises and sets over the water. It rises over the Atlantic Ocean and sets over the Pamlico sound. Our sunsets are breathtaking!

MARY HAGGERTY, wedding planner and photographer

www.NCIslandWedding.com

www.facebook.com/IslandWedding

www.Ocracokeweb.com

Email: NCIslandWedding@gmail.com

Phone Number: (252) 928-7000

Photos: http://www.ocracokephoto.com/

The Best Day of My Life

Cynthia Holly — Tue, 02 Nov 2010 15:42:00 GMT

I've been dreaming of this day all my life! Today I get to wear a beautiful princess white dress and walk down the aisle with my cousin Robby while my whole family watches!

My name is Lauren, and I'm four years old. I am the Flower Girl in my Aunt's wedding. It's so exciting! Yesterday, we all went to the salon to have our nails done. I chose "Passion Pink" because that's my favorite color. I wanted to get sparkles too, but my Mom said that would be 'too gaudy' for a wedding. This is my practice because someday I will get to be the Bride. My Aunt is all happy and stuff because she is the real Bride and she picked a handsome Groom. Our whole family is staying in a beach house on the Outer Banks of North Carolina that looks like a castle. My Mom calls it a cottage, but I think cottages are more like the ones in Snow White, little houses with little chairs with hearts carved in them, and flower gardens leading to the front door. Our 'cottage' has eight bedrooms and two kitchens and a swimming pool and game room with a big screen television that is like a movie theater. My cousins and I have already gotten in trouble for getting stuck in the elevator but we couldn't resist. Who has an elevator in their castle these days?

Anyway, the wedding is later today and we're all getting our hair done this morning by a 'stylist' who is coming to the cottage. I get to have flowers in my hair, which is good because I've always wanted to have flowers in my hair. Once, my cousin Robby put grass in my hair and yesterday I got seaweed stuck in my hair when I tumbled under the waves at the beach. This will be so much better!

Robby is the Ring Bearer today. He's supposed to carry a pillow with the wedding rings in a little pouch and hold my hand while we walk down the aisle, but he's "irresponsible" so the real rings have to be in my Uncle Dale's pocket. Robby just gets to have the plastic rings from the Dollar Store, but that's okay because I already told him that I want to wear one on my ring finger and he said he could care less. Robby is five. He's older, but he's not smarter than me because he has no idea this is the most wonderful day of our lives.

My dress is white, just like the Brides, exactly. I'm the only one who gets to wear white....everyone else has to wear lime green, which is fine with me. I've never liked lime green. Whenever someone gives me a popsicle that is lime green I say "No Thank You".

My shoes are white patent leather and I have white socks with lace on the top. I wanted to wear panty hose but when I put them on they itched a little bit. My Aunt is not wearing panty hose because she said she wants to be barefoot and feel the sand in her toes when she says her vows on the beach. I would like to feel sand on my toes too so I'm going to take my socks off after the ceremony. I do want to look my best for the pictures.

It's almost time and Robby is in his tuxedo now. He didn't even say anything about how beautiful I look. My Mom says it's because he's a boy. I'm glad I'm not a boy because they are clueless. I have my basket of pink rose petals and I will be the first person to walk down the boardwalk aisle to the beach. There are thousands and thousands of people gathered outside to watch me and my Aunt. Robby already misplaced his ring pillow and his Mom is trying to find it. Boys.

The music is starting. Robby found his pillow and is supposed to hold my hand, but I don't want him to because then I won't be able to drop the petals so I just march ahead of him. Step, pause, step, pause.....step, pause. Everyone is smiling and taking pictures. I smile back and hope they notice I have lip gloss on. Step, pause. Robby races past me and jumps onto the steps leading to the Preacher and does a stupid ninja kick saying "Hi Ya!" Everyone laughs. This used to be the best day of my life.

When I get married, I will not invite any boys.

Always, Always, Always....Bridal Tips for a Perfect Beach Wedding

Cynthia Holly — Mon, 04 Oct 2010 13:34:00 GMT

Always, always, always....

Try on your wedding dress one week prior to the wedding, just in case you might need altering. Do not count on losing those last 10 pounds just before the wedding. If it fits the weekend before, it will fit on your wedding day. Have your favorite seamstress standing by. This goes for bridesmaids as well!
Don't worry too much about shoes. Beach ceremonies require bare feet in the sand...but be sure to have that pedicure. Pretty toes will not be regretted. Everyone will love wearing flip-flops or cute sandals. Traditional satin dyed shoes will be ruined after a beach wedding.
Make sure you have a beautiful, matching wrap to cover your bare shoulders after your wedding party retires to the air conditioned reception area. A pashmina (wide scarf or shawl) in white or one of your bridesmaid colors is perfect.
Skip the ceremonial toast of Bloody Mary's or Mimosa's...anything with color that could stain your wedding dresses. Instead, choose a clear beverage like a Mojito that even accidentally spilled will not show.
Practice saying your vows out loud with your spouse. This will ensure that you both can pronounce all of the words properly and that your voices will project so your gathered loved ones can actually hear the ceremony.
Chances are it will be windy. There is almost always an ocean breeze...so don't fret about getting expensive, extravagant hair styles. Consider simply wearing your long hair up in a white or clear clip with some dried baby's breath flowers (from your bouquet). Simple elegance.
Do not use a spray-on, or lotion tanning cream. It will stain your dress...instead use a shimmer lotion that will make your skin glow.
Keep your rings safe in a trusted pocket. Do not allow them to be carried on a pillow by a young ring bearer across the sand or pier...or your symbols of love will most likely be lost forever before the ceremony begins.

"Never, Never, Never"....Some Beach Wedding Advice from Those Who've Done This Before

Cynthia Holly — Fri, 17 Sep 2010 18:34:00 GMT

Here are some interesting wedding tips from Outer Banks Wedding Officiants, who have seen it all:

NEVER, NEVER, NEVER....

Give the real wedding rings to your ring bearer (use the plastic kind from the Dollar Store to tie onto that fancy pillow)
Walk down a pier with the real wedding rings on a fancy pillow (even while untying them, they can drop before you say "I Do")
Assume the Dare County Registry of Deeds Office will be open the Friday before your weekend wedding, especially if inclement weather is predicted (i.e. hurricanes). Get your license well in advance of the ceremony, just to be on the safe side.
Plan your ceremony directly as the sun sets. (unless you don't care about taking pictures, since most cameras can only capture silhouettes at that time of day.)
Write your own vows to read aloud, unless you know for sure the groom/bride can read. (It happens.)
Get married under a trellis, when there is lightening in the sky. (There aren't too many high spots on the beach and a trellis is dangerously inviting to the electrical currents.)
Require the groom and groomsmen to wear tuxedos to an outdoor, summer wedding. (They will look like beached penguins and they will be sweating like pigs.)
Throw rice, birdseed or anything that might be edible to our plethora of seagulls who will gladly become the most unwelcome guests. (Bubbles are good.)
Insist on a candle lighting ceremony during a seaside wedding. The ever present off shore breeze will snuff even the most hardy of candles. (A symbolic mixed sand ceremony is suggested instead.)

Always, Always, Always hire an experienced Outer Banks Wedding Officiant, as they will help to ensure your Beach Wedding is lovely in every way possible. Our appreciation for these helpful tips goes to:

The Outer Banks Officiant and Alan Ross Ministry

Disclaimer: Village Realty accepts no liability for the content of this blog, or for the consequences of any actions taken on the basis of the information provided for any vendors suggested or recommended. OBX Wedding Blog is for informational purposes only. Village Realty has no direct association with any vendors mentioned in articles or posts. Any views or opinions presented in this blog are solely those of the author and do not necessarily represent those of the company.

Outer Banks Beach Weddings on 10.10.10

Cynthia Holly — Wed, 15 Sep 2010 15:14:00 GMT

Apparently "remembering the wedding date" is the number one reason thousands of couples have chosen to be married on upcoming October 10th, 2010 (10.10.10).

Each year has a date that is numerically appealing for a wedding; such as July 7, 2007, which was on a Saturday (ideal) and August 8, 2008 was also popular, for a Friday. September 9th, 2009 happened on a Wednesday, though some brides found it difficult to arrange for guests to attend mid-week, but nothing compares to this year's 10.10.10 date, which, according to local Wedding Officiants, is already one of the most popular ceremony dates in recent history.

For one thing, 10.10.10 falls on a Sunday, with a national holiday (Columbus Day) immediately following. For Catholic couples, the fact that this date is on a Sunday is frustrating in that Catholic churches do not perform weddings on Sundays and priests will not perform ceremonies outside of the church, so alternative nuptials such as Beach Weddings or cruises is even more appealing on this date.

One bride shared the binary equivalent of 101010 adds up to 42, which is "The Answer to Life and the Universe". I have no way of confirming this statement, but I surely hope there are binary 'geeks' out there nodding in agreement.

A wedding planner suggested incorporating bamboo into this year's 10.10.10 wedding decorations or guest favors, as 10 bamboo stalks together represent "completeness and perfection".

On any given weekend, the glorious beaches of the Outer Banks are notorious for spectacular Beach Weddings along the seashore. After speaking with the Dare County Magistrate's office I discovered there is no database kept with regard to wedding dates, so the actual number of applications is not available, however the clerk did say there have been more applications for 10.10.10 than she can remember. Another interesting fact is, most of the applicants are arranging their wedding ceremonies to be performed at 10AM.

Imagine, the entire beach from Nags Head to Southern Shores with bubbling brides and beaming grooms taking their vows at the same time. It would make for an interesting aerial photograph should some creative photographer capture the moment from a biplane.

Regardless of the many reasons, we certainly do wish ALL of the upcoming newlyweds decades of happiness and joy, and hopefully the anniversary will always be as unforgettable as the wedding itself.

Disclaimer: Village Realty accepts no liability for the content of this blog, or for the consequences of any actions taken on the basis of the information provided for any vendors suggested or recommended. OBX Wedding Blog is for informational purposes only. Village Realty has no direct association with any vendors mentioned in articles or posts. Any views or opinions presented in this blog are solely those of the author and do not necessarily represent those of the company.

A Spectacular (Rainy) Wedding Day

Cynthia Holly — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 13:40:00 GMT

Even when every detail has been meticulously planned, down to the color coordination of the cocktail stirrers there are some 'not so perfect' moments in every wedding. For a bride, these mishaps can be devastating, but for the guests these unplanned moments are the ones remembered and talked about long after the last engraved matchbook has been discarded.

The Outer Banks, one of the nation's top destination wedding locations, offers the most beautiful sunrises over the ocean and sunsets over the sound anyone could hope for, most days. But every now and then, it rains, even on a wedding day.

Lauren and Chris planned their perfect wedding like all couples, with an attention to detail to ensure the pictures would be breathtaking, the guests would be comfortable and impressed with lavish catered gourmet food and cocktails after the ceremony. The wedding ceremony would take place on the promenade pier at Pirate's Cove Marina and Yacht Club, one of the most posh destination resort/marinas on the Roanoke Sound.

Father of the Bride, Michael with Bride, Lauren
Photo is courtesy of Mary Basnight Photography

The ceremony was timed to begin hour before sunset, so the skies would have that famous purple and pink swirly background. The luxurious boats docked in the marina offered a spectacular nautical backdrop, with the quiet clinking of masts and deep-sea fishing reels bobbed in the breeze.

As the guests gathered, dressed in their wedding best to take their seats outside the pavilion on the white folding chairs, with chocolate brown satin ribbons tied on each one, to match the bridesmaids dresses, the winds began to pick up and the tinkling of the boats became louder. Unbidden raindrops began to spill from the suddenly cloudy skies, but the guests remained in their seats....hoping the bride would be able to make her entrance, say the vows and run back to the pavilion before the upcoming storm got too bad. Some of the women began to take off their satin shoes to try to save them from getting ruined in the saturated grass. The beautiful monogrammed programs were being used as temporary umbrellas, to save freshly sprayed hairdos.

Lauren had hired a DJ to play songs during the dance reception after the ceremony, and he was supposed to play "Brown Eyed Girl" while she walked from the pavilion, down the wooden deck aisle, to where her groom and wedding party awaited along the pier. Unfortunately, the DJ didn't have enough time, during set-up to do a sound check, so the guests were startled when a portion of the song blared from the loud speakers along with a "test" "test" from the DJ who was inside the pavilion. Everyone smiled...this was going to be fun. But just imagine, poor Lauren, surrounded by her mother, sister and best friends who were all dressed in chocolate silk...hovering inside as the skies opened up to a deluge of rain just as she was about to make her entrance.

Someone shouted, "Everyone grab a chair and bring it inside!!!" We all jumped up, grabbed a chair as requested and ran under the covered pavilion, which we were not supposed to even see until after the ceremony. It was lovely. All of the tables were set with matching linen napkins and a combination of white and chocolate decorations were everywhere. My heart went out to the bride...especially, as the wind began to pick up and some of the beautiful cocktail napkins began to fly off of the tables like little brown birds.

Just as suddenly as the rain started, it stopped....we all stared in awe at the beautiful double rainbow that appeared above the bridge on the horizon. We heard that the bride was in tears by that point, but her friends showed her the rainbow...which was a sign that all would be well from that moment on.

We carried our chairs back outside, and tried to set them up in the perfect symmetry of rows that we had originally found them, however, the end result was a bit misshapen. Nonetheless, it was time...."Brown Eyed Girl" started playing again, this time at a more reasonable volume, and we turned our dampened heads to watch the beautiful young bride walk towards her handsome groom. Chris smiled at her, and she relaxed....we all sighed in relief.

The young officiant, who had apparently recently performed the same vows with another couple, started off by calling the groom "Scott". "Do you Lauren, take "Scott" to be your lawfully wedded husband?" At the look of complete horror on Lauren's face, he bashfully apologized and consulted his notes..."CHRIS...do you Lauren take CHRIS...?"

After the ceremony, the newlyweds walked hand in hand back inside the pavilion while we guests gathered our sodden shoes and droopy dresses and dripping hair to join them inside for pictures.

Here's the thing about weddings. They are not always perfect. Sometimes, it rains. But let me just say, we all had a blast at that reception...as the rain continued to pour, everyone danced in the water. There were no restroom facilities in the pavilion and there was absolutely no way to get to them without walking through a foot of water...dresses were hiked up exposing bare feet, and we simply made do.

Watching Lauren and Chris, holding each other on that dance floor and smiling with sheer delight as they swirled through the puddles to their first dance, was enchanting.

Their wedding, in my memory, was one of the best ever...unforgettably romantic and absolutely spectacular down to the last detail.

Disclaimer: Village Realty accepts no liability for the content of this blog, or for the consequences of any actions taken on the basis of the information provided for any vendors suggested or recommended. OBX Wedding Blog is for informational purposes only. Village Realty has no direct association with any vendors mentioned in articles or posts. Any views or opinions presented in this blog are solely those of the author and do not necessarily represent those of the company.

Love is in the Air

Cynthia Holly — Wed, 11 Aug 2010 18:11:00 GMT

Kevin knew that Breanne was the woman of his dreams. When they met, his heart took flight. That's why, he decided to ask her to marry him 1000 feet above ground...near cloud nine.

Outer Banks Air Charters offers personalized service for up to five passengers per flight with tours of the Outer Banks, or anywhere along the North Carolina coastline.

Pilot Charlie Snow has lived on Roanoke Island for over 20 years. Not only does Charlie know this area like the back of his hand, but as a retired National Park Service engineer and pilot, he also understands the history, geography and lifestyle that makes this place so special. Charlie has hundreds of great stories and tidbits only a local would know and he loves to share this knowledge. So not only do you get extraordinary aerial views of the Outer Banks, you get a great explanation of everything you see.

Standard Outer Banks Air Charter Tours take approximately 1/2 hour, departing from Manteo Airport and start at $195.00 (for up to five passengers.) Customized Tours are also available for an additional cost.

For more information: Contact Pilot Charlie Snow (252) 256-2322
410 Airport Road
Manteo, NC 27954

Elopement Ceremony on the Outer Banks

Cynthia Holly — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 17:50:00 GMT

She said, "Yes!"
He said, "Wow."
She said, "When?"
He said, "How about right now?"
Love can't wait...and if you ask if they believe in fate...they said "Yes!"

The Outer Banks Officiant, Rande Banks offers an Elopement Ceremony Package featuring a gorgeous soundfront, sunset location (including an intimate "Seabreeze" champagne toast) starting at $350.00.

Guest List Includes: Just the bride and groom, two witnesses (up to 10 additional guests are optional) and a whole lot of love, faith, happiness and hope...

Imagine: The bride approaches to the sound of "The Wedding March" (Canon in D) down a pine path lined with love grass and Tiki torches to the gazebo beneath the live oak where her fiance awaits her under the decorated trellis on the beautiful waterfront at sunset. There they shall be wed to the vows of their choice. While many choose "The Land of Beginnings" vows, (Traditional Christian and Casual Contemporary vows are very popular as well.)

After the ceremony and photos, all are invited to Whalebone Soundside Bistro for a Champagne toast.

Additional options are available for a nominal fee, i.e. photographer, flowers, food, etc.

Marriage License Info:

To be married on the Outer Banks, you will need to obtain a Marriage License at any register of deeds office in the state of North Carolina. You will need a photo ID and proof of social security. If either person is divorced, a divorce decree is required. You must have two witnesses, at least 18 years old sign your marriage license after your ceremony is complete as well as your Officiant and it is the job of your Officiant to file it with the Register of Deeds in its proper county. A marriage license will cost $60.00 - there is no blood test or waiting period and the license is valid for 60 days from the date of issue and in any county in North Carolina.

Rande Banks, The Outer Banks Officiant:

(252) 473-0551 or (252) 441-4228

Email: randebanks@theouterbanksofficiant.com

www.theouterbanksofficiant.com

A Beach Wedding ~ Getting Married on the Outer Banks

Cynthia Holly — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 14:21:00 GMT

Getting Married on the Outer Banks

This information is provided by the Outer Banks Chamber of Commerce. Please click on the link above for even more information including a list of wedding vendors registered with the Chamber of Commerce... officiants, locations, flowers, photography, cakes, wedding planners, limo services, rentals and more!

To be married on the Outer Banks of North Carolina, you can obtain a marriage license at any register of deeds office in the state of North Carolina.

Outer Banks locations are:

the Dare County Register of Deeds Office located in the Dare County Justice Center at 962 Marshall C. Collins Drive in Manteo (252) 475-5970;

the Currituck County offices on the Currituck mainland (252)232-3297 (Mon-Fri, 8:00 am - 4:00 pm);

at the Hyde County Register of Deeds office in Swan Quarter (for Ocracoke weddings) at (252)926-3011.

Requirements For North Carolina Marriage License are:

1. Marriage License:

b) In general, one must be 18 years of age to be married in North Carolina. Minors between 16 and 18 may marry with their parents or guardians consent. Anyone under 16 should call the register of deeds office. 2. Magistrates may be contacted in Dare County at (252) 475-5970, in Currituck County at (252) 232-3297 or for Ocracoke Island, call (252)926-4198.

3. There are no justices of the peace in North Carolina.

4. There must be two witnesses at any marriage ceremony, whether it is civil or religious. The minister or magistrate must sign the license, then return it to the register of deeds who issues the license. This is the official record of the ceremony. Certified copies of the certificate can be obtained from the office where the license was issues.

Excellent Question:

What is the best time of day to get married on the beach?

For photography purposes, one or two hours before sunset is best.

A bride or wedding planner will also want to consider high tide (depending on the beach/sand you've chosen).

At the very peak of a sunshiny afternoon in the summer time, the sand is often too hot to stand on, and there are many tourists using the public beaches that will invariably wander into your wedding photos.

Ideally, choose a secluded area or private beach, an hour before sunset in the evening or after sunrise in the morning.

The location choices for weddings on the Outer Banks are endless. In addition to the traditional church wedding, some other ideas include the Elizabethan Gardens, North Carolina Aquarium on Roanoke Island, Fort Raleigh Historic Site, Jockeys Ridge State Park, the Whalehead Club in Corolla, Currituck Lighthouse, an airplane at the Wright Brothers Memorial, the beach, a local wedding chapel, charter fishing boat, pier, favorite motel or historic inn, or in a large rental home on the beach. Two new publications are available to help you with your planning. They are The Wedding Guide to the Outer Banks produced by Three Dog Ink and the Outer Banks Bride Magazine produced by the Outer Banks Wedding Association.

Need Additional Information?

Callour Chamber office at (252) 441-8144,
8:30 am - 5:00 pm,Monday-Friday, EST.

Ocean Atlantic Event Rentals

OBX Wedding Blog — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 13:55:06 GMT

We recently attended a reception at the new location of Ocean Atlantic Event Rentals. My friend Joe is the head tent pitcher, and he spends most of the summer putting up chairs and arches on the beach, and tents anywhere from Corolla to Hatteras.

They have a coordinator who handles everything from table linens to public address systems. Of course, they also rent surfboards, beach chairs and anythign else you might need for your special time at the beach.

Poking around their website, I'm thinking I should rent the "Fill n Chill" table just for general summer use

Check out their new location at milepost 9.5 on the bypass, right by the Kill Devil Hills/Nags Head town line. They're in between the highways in the big barn with a sunset painted on the side. And tell them Maslin sent you!

Tips from a Photographer

OBX Wedding Blog — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 17:42:00 GMT

Here are some tips from Outer Banks wedding photographer Daryl Law:

After photographing approximately 250 wedding in the past seven or eight years, I’ve come up with five important ideas to share with brides-to-be:

Touch base. Be sure to contact your photographer the day before or the morning of your wedding. This should help smooth some of your last minute jitters about whether he or she will show up on time.
Allow extra time. Have your photographer arrive at least 30 minutes if not an hour before your ceremony. Leaving some cushion for your photographer is important in case they were to have car or other problems. Expect to pay them for this time too as any experienced photographer will start working the minute he or she arrives.
Have a rain plan. If you’re planning an outside wedding, be sure to have a back-up plan in case of poor weather. You need to decide in advance where to get married if it rains or storms. Most of the beach houses have large great rooms and this space should work fine. Have a cut-off time no less than an hour before the ceremony when you make the call to go inside or out.
Pay vendors early. If vendor payments have not been made before the wedding day, they should be handed out in envelopes as the vendors arrive for the ceremony. From a vendor’s point of view, it’s no fun to chase down the bride at the end of the event to get paid.
Relax! Try not to let details take over your mood the day of your wedding. Focus on the positive and don’t get upset if some of the flowers are wrong or one of the groom’s friends acted up at the rehearsal dinner. Just enjoy the day!

I hope these tips help in preparing for your wedding!

Forget the Horse and Carriage! What About a Helicopter Ride?

OBX Wedding Blog — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 15:27:00 GMT

My aunt Mary was swept off her feet by her new husband - literally! After the wedding and the country club reception, he arranged for a helicopter to whisk them off to their honeymoon. It landed right there on the golf course. Pretty cool huh?

This ancient memory percolated to the surface yesterday when we met with Larry from Coastal Helicopters. It turns out he offers the only helicopter rides on the Outer Banks. In addition to being whisked away, he says the helicopter-eye-view is great for photos of your beach wedding. Or how about a mini-mancation before the wedding including a helicopter tour for the groomsmen?

Larry flies a Robinson R-44 Raven II helicopter. It is air conditioned and seats three passengers. You can arrange a charter for as little as 20-minutes for $175. For three people, that's less than $60 each!

Okay, so here's a little extra for all you romantics out there: helicopter video of the Great Serendipity Move of 2010. Yes, that's the house from Nights in Rodanthe. The ocean was getting a little too close close for comfort, so it had to be moved to a safer location. Always on the ball, Larry took to the skies to bring us this awesome video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4aNjCxd_TM

If you want to find out more about chartering a helicopter on the Outer Banks, check out http://www.obxhelicopters.com/